Growing up, I was blessed to have all 4 of my grandparents in my life on a weekly basis. At minimum, I saw all of them at church each week.  I realize how rare that truly is and I am so thankful.

Even more special is that my girls have gotten to know their great grandparents! When I was pregnant with my youngest (7 years ago), my maternal grandfather passed away. My oldest still remembers him. The past several years, my girls have been able to spend time with their other 3 great grandparents. What a gift!

Grandpa was weeks away from turning 94. He was an amazing man who taught me many things…Here are a few.

1. Stick Together

He and Grandma were married for 70 years. They went everywhere together. In their younger years, they commuted to work downtown Chicago together. They went to church and did life together.  I can’t really remember a time that I saw Grandpa without Grandma. When you find your person, stick with them.

2. Hold on Tight

One of the main images I have in my head, is of my Grandpa holding onto my Grandma. Guiding her while walking, holding her hand, and putting his arm around her shoulder. He found his sweetheart and he wasn’t letting go.

3. Lend a Hand

Grandpa was a helper. You didn’t have to ask him to help because he was already doing it. No job was too small… Clearing the table, collecting trash, vacuuming, driving a friend, making a delivery… You name it and he was doing it. He gave freely of his time to anyone who needed it. No questions asked.

4. Whistle While you Work

No matter what he was doing… You could usually find him whistling. He was joyful and spreading his happiness. I can still hear it. If you’re breathing, life is good… Just whistle!

5. Always Time for a Pop

Grandpa always had soda pop … Orange, grape, root beer… And always wanted whoever came by to stay for one.  He had time and wanted you to slow down and chat for a bit.  He was a social guy and loved to tell stories… If you took the time to listen. Wish I could go back and hear a few of those stories one more time.

6. Honor

Grandpa served in the military. Every Memorial Day he honored his fallen brothers. He was very proud of the sacrifices he made many, many years ago. He taught me to respect those who have served and to show gratitude on a regular basis.

7. Love God

Grandpa lead by example.  If you asked, he would tell you, but wasn’t one to be outspoken in general.  He was at church every Sunday no matter the weather.  He came to serve, love, see family, and support his son the pastor. Grandpa always had a hug and a smile.  Later in life, he attended a church closer to home. He loved and served well there, too.  He did not need recognition for all he did– he did it because of his love for the Lord. Such a mighty example of faith.

I love you Grandpa.

(And don’t worry about Grandma, your son is watching over her and we are, too)