So… The holidays. They turn the average mom into a crazy mom. And those already on the edge get pushed over. How to maintain sanity…
1.Do not over schedule. And that might mean saying “no” to lots of fun things!! Are you introverted? Make sure you don’t over commit to too many social events. Do you have kids who are over stimulated easily? Think about whether the candy, lights, noise, and large man with the beard are really worth it.
2.Take time to plan time for family traditions– but don’t overdo it. You don’t have to do EVERY single thing EVERY single year. Pick and choose.
3.Take it all in stride and realize you can’t have it all. Some things have to go. Clean house, laundry, perfect meal, work out… Prioritize.
4.Be quick to forgive others who are acting crazy. Give Grace… ‘Tis the season to be an example of the reason!!! (Jesus!!!)
5.BOUNDARIES!! (Yes, this concept will somehow make it into just about all of my posts) Set them. Maintain them. Do not lose sight of them. Especially when it comes to family expectations and those members that made you have to create the boundaries in the first place!!! (Read “Boundaries” by Drs Cloud and Townsend)
6.Don’t forget about time with the Lord. No explanation needed.